Servitude is in the mind.. yet its foundation (or lack thereof) shows through all,  in everything you do.

Are you without a Mistress at this time?
Are you under House rule?
Do you wish that your Superior would participate in your training?

The letters that you have sent to the House say overwhelmingly “yes”. They say that you need to get deeper inside yourself. They say that you need to learn the core of what is intended from the House curriculum.

Servitude begins in the inner state of a sissy’s mind. This means that you can practice the most important and essential part of being a sissy with or without your Superiors guidance!

Yes girls…… you can do this at home, and still “pussyfoot” around your Superior!

It is always most favorable for a sissy to have a Mistress or Master that can help in the annihilation of the sissies personal freedom, (as you all well know). The good news is that even if you find that you are with someone who does not openly condone your sissy needs, you can still practice this most essential part privately while introducing your Superior to the benefits of your becoming.

If a sissy practices her feminine poise at all times…. she will often find that much of what she desired from her Mistress is naturally granted. Even when the Superior is not openly encouraging feminization/sissification!

Servitude is the goal, the essence of any sissy’s life. Complete and total annihilation of thoughts, feelings, and desires for anyone or anything other than your Mistress/Master. Humiliation and consistency is the means of becoming firmly established in the knowledge of your rightful position as a submissive pet. To be a true, worthy submissive sissy slut, we must re-wire the very brain functioning that was required of you in your youth. As a result of these many years behind you, (you are over 18 now, right?) it will take constant remembrance, and some stern reminders, before you are fully ready and worthy to be used as a presentable property.

serveIf one professes to be a sissy and yet cannot submit his actions to his Superior he is little more than an imposter, a wannabee, a pawn to his own inflated ego, feeling that somehow if he manages to feminize himself he will be even greater. Yes. You better read that again. This kind of sissy is nothing more than an egotistical male mocking the superiority of Women. Not only is he not a sissy but he is not even a man. Truly he is deplorable and worthy of little more than contempt.

A state of subjection to an owner or a master.
Lack of personal freedom, as to act as one chooses

Right here. Right now.

A sissy must take the time to learn and teach herself how to be a better servant. Becoming accomplished at those tasks required of her. The ones right at hand. Taking that extra step to do more. These can be such simple things as:

  • learning to cook well
  • keeping your Mistresses house in proper order
  • cleanliness
  • giving your Mistress massage
  • learning to be a proper hostess for parties (dressed or not in your serving attire)
  • becoming skilled at the fine art of cunnilingus and fellatio.

Yes dear, all of these things can be practiced with or without the knowledge of your Superior!


Keeping up Appearances

A sissy must present herself in a proper and becoming fashion at all times. Whether sitting, standing, kneeling, walking, talking, serving or being punished……a sissy’s demeanor is of paramount concern. While you are in any of these postures it is completely unacceptable (unless instructed otherwise by your Mistress/Master) to talk, chew gum, smoke, laugh, bite nails or in other ways fidget.

For instance: When addressing your Mistress do you always remember to curtsy? Have you been practicing your curtsy until you can do so in a graceful, fluid way? There are certain things that even the House must assume you know.

You must remember throughout each moment to subjugate your psyche as well as your body if you are to become the proper sissy slave you enrolled to become.


Quality Replacement

Eradicate from your behavior the male “qualities” (and we do use that term loosely) and adopt the feminine, sissy behaviours stated in the table below:






Self Centered


In – Charge






Self Effacing






Mandatory Panties!

Although it is only appropriate to use your sissy name while presenting as her, it is required that you wear your panties at all times (unless specifically otherwise instructed by your Superior). In this way you will be reminded of your status. Whether you are in a board meeting or building a house, you are not the male you are presenting yourself as…. but instead a panty clad little sissy under the constant control of your Mistress and the House!


While you are walking down the hall, (regardless of what role you are playing) Are you remembering to walk like a sissy? Are you remembering to take small steps, to glide as you walk? Are you keeping your spine erect, your pelvis loose so it can sway every so smoothly from side to side, drawing subtle attention to your panty covered bottom?

When you walk, do not stride! (it is a quality reserved for those men you may someday be servicing) This is not a presentation that is acceptable for you. While standing, stand erect. Back straight, knees and ankles together head slightly bowed, eyes cast down, hands at your sides or folded in front of you covering your pointless sex organs. Practice with a book on your head dear. And yes…. in your 5″ heels.


When dropping to a kneeling position, DO NOT move one knee at a time. This is terribly ungraceful and presents the chance of showing your panties while you are moving. Instead bend both knees together and gently and gracefully lower yourself to the ground. Once on your knee’s; kneel with your back straight, your head slightly bowed, hands folded in front of you, and remember to keep your eyes cast slightly down at all times unless otherwise instructed.


Sitting it a posture that you must perfect. It is also something you can practice throughout the day whether in your Mistresses presence or not. When sitting NEVER sit with your legs apart, or with one ankle resting on the knee of the opposing leg. These are positions that men sit in, they are NOT acceptable for you ever again. When sitting gently and gracefully set your bottom onto the seat you have chosen. Keep your ankles and knees tightly together, tuck your feet slightly under, keep your back straight, head slightly bowed, eyes lowered, hands folded in your lap. (Are you getting this yet?) Be sure to have smoothed your skirt before settling down.


Remember, your Superior would not be punishing you if She did not derive pleasure from it. For you to submit to Her, is to offer Her your body, for Her chosen purpose and pleasure.

To be submissive to your Superiors wishes is to serve. Whether it be to open your mouth and not resist as she ball gags you…. or to accept a spanking without resistance. In all of your actions ask yourself again and again . “What would She like from me?” Whatever that is, it is what you should be offering. If She has to ask honey…. It’s just too late.

Women Studies

As a sissy it is most important for you to study and respect Women. Women are your Superiors, your Teachers.

Treat all women with the respect that their birthright fully demands. This does not mean that you should treat all Women you meet in your every day life as your Mistress, but it does mean that you should practice taking time to treat them with respect, showing your admiration for them in ways that they would like.

For instance if you are wishing to give a woman who works in your company something to show your appreciation of her; keep in mind what “She ” would like. Perhaps a day off with pay would be far more appreciated than a vase of flowers. The more you can attempt to think like a Woman, the better you will be at reading Our minds.


Since for much of your life you have foolishly treated women in a demeaning fashion, you must immediately change this behavior on all fronts. Each day you are to ask yourself these questions:

  1. Have i served a woman today?
  2. Have i placed a Womans needs above my own this day?
  3. Have i identified and done some act (no matter how small) that has further defined myself as the sissy servant i am?

If not stop NOW, and go and do it!redtape

“Obsequious is the operative word for a sissy.
Never give an opinion unless asked.
Always anticipate any Woman’s needs or desires for assistance….”
Mz. Rebekka

Now get to work girls.
Your reports are due in our mailbox ASAP!

Ready to start your training?

Submit your application today!


This sissy is infinitely grateful that you have welcomed her into the House and given her a safe haven among like-minded people. Although she has only been here for a short time, she has made tremendous progress in her deep… Read more “sissy fraenzi”


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Dear Mistress,

this sissy is willing to follow her training fully and completely till is fully feminized and ready to service the Superiors 24/7.


This sissy was reminded by email that my subscription to he.r sissy trying had elapsed. The excitement was so immediate on such a visceral level immediately restarted he.r sissy training. s.he knows s.he will have to do the shaving assignment tomorrow, after that starts it much be every day unless we use hair removal creams. The sissy knows how erotic it is the first days after a full body shave. S.he knows she should throw out all the boys briefs in he.r draws and only have lingerie. S.he would be most grateful for any mentorship or guidance. Thank you


I have returned to my sissy training after a year’s absence and have re-read the training materials and all of the members’s comments. I am encouraged and excited to restart my training. After rejoining this week I read the shaving assignment and followed the excellent advice. I started with a hot shower using a body wash with extra skin moisturizer. Once I finished I applied a good feminine shave cream and shaved with lady’s razors. The result was fantastic smooth legs and no red bumps. Beyond that and wearing nylon panties 24/7 for several years I realized how important your… Read more »


Dear House And Mistress, Thank you for allowing me to rejoin the House . Hopefully I can carry on my training where I left off. The Skills I’ve learned so far have helped me become a Sincere SissySlut . Wouldn’t change a think . Thank you, Sissy Jamie.


I will be practicing all these things I will constantly
Reread all this stuff and work
On my goal of becoming what I truly want to be and what makes me happy
I’m starting by making sure to 100% wear pantys under my clothes at all time , walking like the sissy I am and practicing my curtsy
Thank you
Princess tammy

alexis marie

Dear Mistresses and your wonderful Staff, Honestly, for me just getting involved today with this all, the Honest truth is I personal need a good bit more training and to constantly remind myself that I can not keep calling myself a true Sissy Slave when I am not in total submission to a Superior Mistress. Me, reading this lesson honestly knows for sure I will have to reread it again a time or two soon again to let it sink in more to my mental training too. I promise Mistress and Your Staff, I will set aside a Hour during… Read more »


Mistress, I am a submissive sissy to my dominant Wife for many years. I work hard to make Her life easier, but your very informative article reminded me I must continue to work harder in several areas. My curtsy must improve both on frequency and in style. I will work hard to improve this. Also my walking still leaves a lot to be desired. That to I will work on very hard over the next couple of weeks. Thank You for all your efforts to make me a better sissy.


This is amazing and gives me a goal to achieve.
i’ve hinted to my Wife about being Her maid and She jokingly agreed.
When She gets back from vacation i will en devour to see if She really wants to do it.
KInda test the waters to see if She’s really into it.
Thanks so much for this!
It’s an inspiration!!!



I have a feeling, to be a proper sissy, this article will need to be read many times over. It will be a tough road starting out but this support seems capable and effective at placing sissies in their round hole. Today, the sissy task was to help a male friend by cleaning his kitchen. The sissification was to pretend he was going off to work as his house wife stayed home and managed the household. It was a great first lesson in doing things for others and getting in the feminine mind.


This was a great lesson for this sissy to learn and great timing for it.
I made the decision just today to throw away any undergarments that weren’t panties. I will be in them full time from now on to prove my place and role here.
I will also begin walking the walk and talking the talk.
Please keep reminding us of our place of servitude as we kneel and grovel at your feet for the training that we need.

Thank you so much,